What if missed opportunities are in fact opportunities we are still missing and still available to us, just in different forms?
So many conversations linger on the hindsight of missed opportunities. What if the opportunity isn’t missed if we do something about it now? This blog considers if missed opportunities are really a recurring pattern of missing opportunities and, if so, what is the underlying opportunity still available for us to seize?
What are we taking for granted and what is its impact on how we choose to live our lives?
This blog explores what we take for granted and in doing so what potential remains untapped as a result. What are the experiences, skills and strengths we take for granted when if we didn’t we could more fully be what we want to be? It asks what would remind us of the things we take for granted so we can appreciate and harness them more.
What is possible if we ask questions rather than set goals and follow ideas over answers?
How does a focus on answers and goals limit us? What if we focused more on questions and ideas? This blog explores what is possible when we hold specific outcomes and answers more lightly, opening ourselves to the possibility that the best answers are really just ideas that evolve and grow as we continue to explore questions that have no fixed nor finite answer.
What gives us the feeling of progress we need to create the progress we want to see and how can we apply that to the area we really want to move forwards?
This blog explores how the feeling of progress can help us create real progress. It considers what we need to create that feeling and what becomes possible when we feel a sense of progress. In knowing what helps us feel progress this blog asks where in our lives we would like to see real progress and what we could do to create the feeling of progress that sparks the energy to create real, tangible progress.
What if it isn’t just about planting new seeds but tending, pruning, propagating and composting what is already growing?
This blog, exploring the analogy of planting seeds to create what we want in life, considers what else we can do beyond planting seeds. It asks what already exists and is growing that we can harvest, compost, prune or propagate to contribute to the ecosystem we want our life to be part of.
What are all the other possible stories that don’t say I’m not good enough?
This blog explores what our stories about our experiences say about how we see ourselves and the world and what they make possible or impossible for us. One story that is almost always possible to read into experiences is that ‘I am not good enough’. That is only one story. This blog asks what are the other stories we can tell and which one could we choose that best supported us and who we really want to be
How can our approach to seemingly mundane things enable us to grow and face the big things that feel most difficult to us?
This blog considers how we can approach the smallest aspects of everyday in a way that enables our growth. It asks how we can approach things in a way that enables growth without perpetuating an idea of unnecessary suffering to grow. It asks what if we are always growing and if so how can we approach things to best enable this growth and the potential growth pains that come with it?
What does our language say about how we see things?
This blog explores what the impact of our words are on how we see the world and how we are in it. It considers how our environment may influence our words and thoughts and how we may observe our thoughts and words and learn patterns of thought and speech that reflect more who we want to be and how we want to see the world.
What is it that we really want and how can we have more of it in how we approach each moment?
What is behind what we want and how can we bring those qualities into our lives more regardless of the outcomes we are working towards? This blog explores what the qualities are behind the things we want and asks if there are ways we can create more of those qualities without them only being the bi-product of outcomes.
When faced with the unknown and all its possibilities how do we want to be?
This blog explores how we may face the unknown. How can we reframe the ‘what ifs’ that stop us starting because we worry we may not be able to complete the thing we want to do. Sometimes the only way to learn to do it is to do it and then it is a matter of how we go about it.
What can a crouton tell us about purpose?
A crouton is often not the intended outcome for a loaf of bread. Like a crouton what are the things that come to be in our life and still fulfil a purpose even if how we intended them to isn’t how it transpires? This blog explores how purpose can shift, the different shapes purpose can take and how we can choose to see purpose.
What do we miss when we’re seeking the summit over the rightness of the attempt?
This blog, inspired by Wade Davis’ work on Mallory’s attempts to summit Everest, explores what can be lost if we focus only on an outcome and what it means to balance ambition with a right attempt at achieving the summits we seek in life.
What is on our maps? Navigating life, uncertainty and finding our way.
What do we need to help us navigate our lives and get us to where we want? The world is full of navigation metaphors and analogies, but how clear our we on our own maps for navigating our world and our life. What is on our map, where is still to explore? This blog reflects on what we need to help us more consciously navigate our world and our lives.
How does how we see leading shape when, where and even if we lead? What if leading isn’t just a role but a way of being in any context?
What if we are always leading and it is more a question of how, when and where we want to lead? This blog explores all the assumptions we make about leading and asks what does it mean to lead in all contexts rather than seeing leading as determined by the roles we have or don’t have in life.
What would you most worry about deleting and what would be a release to have deleted?
This blog asks what the impact of finding something to be deleted would be for us. What would we miss? What would we be grateful for? What would we be inspired to finish knowing it could be deleted? In exploring this it asks what do we want to choose to let go of, what do we want to appreciate more and what do we want to finish rather than see deleted?
What does it mean to lead humanly and what would the impact be for us and others?
This blog explores what the realities of being human are and what they mean for how we live and lead. If we are fallible and finite and also capable beyond our wildest expectations what does that mean for how we are and what we focus on?
What hat are we wearing and how do we get it to suit us?
What are the different roles we play and what does it look like to play them to our strengths? This blog, using the analogy of wearing multiple hats explores what hats we are wearing, what hats do we want to wear and what it looks like to wear those hats in a way that best suits us.
What are the things we can only know the value of when we share them?
What is the gift we may not know until we share our work? Be that an idea, a thought or a project we’re working on, this blog explores how it may only be in the act of sharing it that we realise the gift it is, for us or for others. Therefore, this blog asks, if we knew that only in sharing our work may we realise the gift it is, what would we share?
Making things work - what is the impact of our approach on how we make things work and whether they ever really work for us?
When we are working to make something work what are we focusing on, the process, the outcome or both? This blog explores what the impact is of our approach to making things work and how that may effect whether they ever really work for us.
What if how we respond is down to what we see? And practices to respond how we want in any moment, courtesy of a fork.
This blog explores how we see things can impact how we respond to them. In understanding how we see things it asks what are the small practices we can create that allow us to respond to things more in accordance with our values and with what matters to us?