What if our readiness for success can make us succeeding in what really matters more likely? This blog explores how we can get in our own way of finding the success we long for. It asks what our relationship to success is and what we can do to create a relationship with us and success that serves us in finding that success. 

This blog explores the impact of forcing and what we need to do what matters without forcing it to happen. It explores why forcing may help us do things we are avoiding but in the long run may be less sustainable than other approaches. 

This blog explores productivity. What are we being productive for? It asks what is your relationship to productivity and what do you need to be present to your productivity, because from presence we can choose how we want to relate to something. 

This blog explores the words behind what we say, the behind-words. It asks what the impact is on us and others, what does it make possible and less possible. If we could more consciously create the world we most want to be part of, what would the behind-words be that all of our words carry? 

This blog is inspired by all the times I wish I had tried turning it off and on again rather than spending hours frantically stuck in trying to find a fix for something. It explores what an equivalent process for us could look like, when it could be most useful and how it can help us return to a challenge, which may no longer even feel like a challenge, with fresh eyes. 

This blog explores endings as a skill and how it can prepare us for endings we cannot control. It asks what we need to practise endings, where we can practise them and what can we start when we can more skillfully create and navigate endings? 

This blog asks what we are serving in how we do what we do and how that compares to what we really want to serve. The blog asks what conditions we need to serve what really matters to us and how doing the same thing could be in service of totally different things. 

This blog considers the times life makes us reconsider how we are doing things and how that can often lead to us being our best more. As a result, this blog asks what could we do now that helps us be our best more, instead of waiting for the world to tell us to consider this area more? 

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This blog asks what is behind the thing we know which we are resisting doing anything about? Like an old outfit we have outgrown, what do we need to gently put it aside to welcome an outfit that better fits us now?

Who do we need to see ourselves as to become the person we want to be? This blog asks what if how we see ourselves is the first step to achieving what we want and becoming who we want to be? If so, who do we need to see ourselves as and how can we do that? 

This blog explores how we can shift from feeling stuck with tiny tweaks and small changes to routines and daily life that can create a sense of novelty which opens us up to more possibility. 

So many conversations linger on the hindsight of missed opportunities. What if the opportunity isn’t missed if we do something about it now? This blog considers if missed opportunities are really a recurring pattern of missing opportunities and, if so, what is the underlying opportunity still available for us to seize? 

This blog explores what we take for granted and in doing so what potential remains untapped as a result. What are the experiences, skills and strengths we take for granted when if we didn’t we could more fully be what we want to be? It asks what would remind us of the things we take for granted so we can appreciate and harness them more. 

How does a focus on answers and goals limit us? What if we focused more on questions and ideas? This blog explores what is possible when we hold specific outcomes and answers more lightly, opening ourselves to the possibility that the best answers are really just ideas that evolve and grow as we continue to explore questions that have no fixed nor finite answer.

This blog explores how the feeling of progress can help us create real progress. It considers  what we need to create that feeling and what becomes possible when we feel a sense of progress. In knowing what helps us feel progress this blog asks where in our lives we would like to see real progress and what we could do to create the feeling of progress that sparks the energy to create real, tangible progress.

This blog, exploring the analogy of planting seeds to create what we want in life, considers what else we can do beyond planting seeds. It asks what already exists and is growing that we can harvest, compost, prune or propagate to contribute to the ecosystem we want our life to be part of. 

This blog explores what our stories about our experiences say about how we see ourselves and the world and what they make possible or impossible for us. One story that is almost always possible to read into experiences is that ‘I am not good enough’. That is only one story. This blog asks what are the other stories we can tell and which one could we choose that best supported us and who we really want to be

This blog considers how we can approach the smallest aspects of everyday in a way that enables our growth. It asks how we can approach things in a way that enables growth without perpetuating an idea of unnecessary suffering to grow. It asks what if we are always growing and if so how can we approach things to best enable this growth and the potential growth pains that come with it? 

This blog explores what the impact of our words are on how we see the world and how we are in it. It considers how our environment may influence our words and thoughts and how we may observe our thoughts and words and learn patterns of thought and speech that reflect more who we want to be and how we want to see the world.